Alternative Hedonistic Source : Kansas City's discussion and support group. Leather & Lace : Private D/s group in St. Louis. NORMAL - Northern Missouri Alternative Lifestyles : [Kirksville] Pansexual discussion/support/social group for adults concerned with bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, and/or sadomasochism, in a love relationship. Includes rules for munches and play parties. St. Louis Scene : Scene-friendly information, and BDSM resources in the local area. Includes discussion of the various organizations, munches, and other resources both locally and throughout the Midwest.